The two I'm on are Zoosk and Match.com. You can't read messages, can't send messages, can't even look to see who viewed your profile. Well on Zoosk you can, but you can't view there's back. The other dating site I'm on is plentyoffish.com. At least there you can look up people's profiles, see who viewed yours, and message each other.
However, me being who I am, I don't get very many looks. Or no messages. I am a person who has faced rejection so much in my life, that too be honest, I can't take it again. But that's all for another time.
I mean, I just can't message anyone because I just have a sinking feeling that they'll see my picture and think instantly I'm looking for sex. But at the same time all these women have on there profile "Don't message me hi, hello, or what's up" and "say something interesting." Now, I am probably the most least interesting person on the planet. So what am I supposed to say to these women?
By the way, I'm not on these dating sites to look for an intimate relationship. I am on there strictly to find friends and have conversations. I have never had sex before, so why I would be on a dating site for sex is completely ludacris.
There is actually a real reason I am looking to talk with women. And again, that's best saved for another time.
Back to the point at hand. Dating Sites are just a waste of money. I tried emailing the people at Match.com why I should pay them when I could just look up somebody who looked me up. And try and find them on Facebook or Twitter. I am willing to bet that most people will use the same Twitter handle as they do on dating sites. At least I do, so people can easily look me up elsewhere. (You may be thinking that's dangerous because they could hack me or whatnot, but I don't have a credit card or anything that could get me in serious trouble on my computer anways).
But the people over at Match.com just emailed me back saying there is no way to stop others from viewing my profile and looking me up on other sites. They then told me to make my profile more secure! I'm like NO! If they want to look me up on other sites let it be! That way I don't have to pay you! I just don't get why you wouldn't go to one dating site, possibly meet someone, and then look them up elsewhere on something like Facebook where chatting is free. Dating sites would be completely screwed if people all thought this way. Anyways I'm getting far too long on this entry, so I would like to ask now what everyone else's opinions are on this. Thanks everybody!
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